I believe that commitment and communication are the two most important aspects of maintaining a healthy long distance relationship.
 You have to be committed above all else, because if you don’t have that first step then everything else will just fall through the roof. I think a lot of people give up on ldr’s so easily [...]

Rebecca “Ruji” Chapnik has written a fabulous article about red flags that indicate that a person is not emotionally available.

The Whatever Vibe
The Wounded Puppy Syndrome
Instant Intimacy Solution
Let’s Meet in Private…Always
The Repeat Offender/Offendee
Sexual Confusion, or the Trial Run

Take great note of number 3, Instant Intimacy Solution, especially if you are in a long distance relationship [...]

Long distance relationships are full of highs and lows. Everyone knows that when a visit is coming up you so excited and you can’t wait. Then the visit starts and you are happy but you can’t help but think about how you are eventually going to have to leave. Then it’s time to leave. You [...]