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I Found His Craigslist Posting
Q: I found out my S.O. responded to a personal ad on Craigslist. Don’t ask how I found out. I can’t believe he tried to hook up with someone else while he is steady telling me that he misses me. Now I don’t trust him anymore but I want to remain positive about it.
A: Chances are you were fiddling around in his email account-right? Been there, done that, wrote a postcard. Red flag #1 -when you feel the need to go through all his (or her) emails, your relationship is not headed in the right direction. You have every right not to trust him. Men who do things like that tend to prey on women with their charm. They also tend to have low self esteem so they need all this online attention to make them feel good about themselves.
If you confront him, he’s either going to lie about it, or turn it around on you and ask why are you all in his business. If you allow him to, he will charm you into forgetting what a creepish thing that is to do- been there, been charmed, felt stupid afterwards.
The best thing to do is to just cut him lose, move on, and thank God that it didn’t go any further.
Nice advice. Yes, better to cut him out of your life. You cannot trust the guy… I think you never really trusted him after all… that’s how you found out.