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I’m Insecure in My Relationship
Q: We talk on the phone 3 or 4 times a day for hours at a time, and I text message her all day. She is all I think about. I worry that she is going to leave me for someone else. She tells me she loves me everyday. I need about 3 months before I can move there. I have tried to get these bad things off my mind with other activities, but no matter what i do she is always on my mind. What do i do?
A: If you are on the phone with someone for three hours a day, every day chances are nothing funny is going on. You said you are moving in a few months to be with her. How are you going to behave then? Are you always going to be paranoid about what she is doing? Are you going to monitor her calls and emails? Examine her underwear? I don’t mean to make light of what you are going through but, you really need to relax. If someone is going to cheat on you, they are going to cheat- regardless of the distance. Stop worrying so much and enjoy your relationship. If you find you can’t do that then it wouldn’t hurt to talk to a professional counselor. You don’t want to carry issues like that into a long term situation.
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its true, doesn’t matter the distance, if she’s going to cheat, she’ll cheat, but make sure you dont question her every move, that tends to make girls feel suffocated! Think about what you say and ask her before you do it!