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Am I Weird?
Q: Don’t make fun of me but after I see my SO I don’t know what to do. I feel uncomfortable because I’m used to thinking about him and not being around him. When I first see him I feel strange at first. Is this normal?
A: For some people it’s very normal. I used to be the same way. We would visit each other monthly but each time I’d feel weird for awhile. It wasn’t a few minutes either, it’d take me about an hour to start feeling comfortable.
On the other hand, he was just fine. He’d hug and kiss me like we’d only been apart for 2 hours. It was strange to me, and my behavior was strange to him so it’s something that we had to talk out so that we’d both feel comfortable and so that no one would end up with hurt feelings.
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ha ha ha….I love this site! I’ve started to date a guy who thankfully only lives 2 hour drive from me but still……it can be frustrating especially since we haven’t had any of the “important” conversations yet. But I keep saying that everytime I see him, it takes me a little bit to get comfortable around him. It’s like I’m meeting him all over again for the first time or something. I hope I have enough courage to talk to him about it.