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I’m Ready To Move and He’s Nowhere to be Found!
Q: Here’s the deal. My boyfriend moved because of a job. He asked me to move with him before he left. I said ok but I couldn’t move right away. Later I called him and told him I was coming. He told me that he had to leave for two weeks. I cancelled my plane ticket and now I think I made a mistake because he isn’t really talking to me. We just send each other text messages and I already quit my job because I thought I was moving. He told me to relax. What should I do?
A: It sounds like there was a lack of discussion that went like this.
“I’m moving, you should come with me.”
“Ok, sure”
-Discussion ends-
Why didn’t you talk about the logistics of this? When you should move, where you guys will live, who will pay for what because you’ll have to find a new job, etc.
Often times people get so excited that their brain gets clouded with love. The problem with this is that when the brain is clouded, you don’t think!
My advice is to have a conversation with him…if you can. If he isn’t talking to you then that’s all you need to know.
Best of luck.
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