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Part II: Your Long Distance Relationship Might Be Over If….
I’ve found that it’s necessary for me to write a part two to Your Long Distance Relationship Might Be Over If so here goes.
1) The person breaks up with you. I know that this will make some people laugh, and others scratch their heads, but sometimes it’s hard to accept that someone has broken up with you. You want to deny it, or make excuses, or beg them to reconsider.
Sooner or later you’ll realize that when people break up with you, it’s for a reason, and it’s usually for the best. If someone doesn’t want to be with you then cry, be sad, eat ice cream; but know that begging won’t make someone love you, and one day the pain you feel won’t be there.
2) Something is just not right. Do you ever get the feeling that something is just a little off? It doesn’t feel right, something’s not too clean, but you just can’t put your finger on it. Don’t ignore this because chances are you feel that way because it’s true- something is wrong in your relationship. This isn’t necessarily a sign of breaking up, but just don’t ignore it. Instead you need to find out what it is and that doesn’t mean start asking a million questions.
3)You are never on the same page…about anything. You want kids, they hate kids. You want to get married, they just want to screw around. You believe in putting fourth effort, they think they are too busy to send a 10 second text message. Compatibility is key to any relationship. Don’t excuse glaring incompatibilities just because you are in a long distance relationship.
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