ADM Network | A Curvy Diva | Bride Diva | Marriage Diva | Parenting Diva | Telecommuting Diva| Advertise|
>>Go Back Home

Information and Links

Join the fray by commenting, tracking what others have to say, or linking to it from your blog.

Other Posts
Let’s Talk About Your Relationship
Meeting the Parents, What Should I Do?

I’m Distraught Over Long Distance Breakup

Posted by LD Diva on December 18th, 2008

Q: In the past 2 years, I’ve divorced after 20 years, started a new job, moved the kids from schools, and found a new man for the last 16 months. He lives 2 hour away and we fell in love and lust….[Recently] He broke everything off and said he cared, but was completely worn out. VIA EMAIL.

I am having a very hard time even eating and sleeping and wasn’t like this during my divorce. I feel like I’m in 7th grade and very

sickened by the way I have let my emotions take control. He did all of this over the phone and email, but I’m such a personality that needs to have a tangible goodbye and give a hug and a suitcase FULL of jewelry, clothes, movies, phones, cds, dvds, memories of birthdays, holidays.

He told me today that he, under no uncertain terms, he would NOT meet me. I got to the begging stage and he still said no. Please give me any words you are able and I will be forever grateful.

A: You need closure. That’s all there is to it. What he did was terrible and that makes him a coward. Do not go begging to him, you should know better. Any man you have to beg to be with you is not a man you want.

Here is what you do.

Write him a letter. Write the meanest, nastiest letter you can think of. Tell him exactly how you feel and why you feel that way. Once you’ve written it read it aloud.

Next take that letter and rip it. Rip it good and flush it down the toilet. That represents your closure. That represents letting all the crap go where it needs to go.

I’m not joking, it works. I know this from personal experience.

Next, get rid of all the stuff that reminds you of him. There’s no need to keep it. It will only make your recovery worse. Throw it out, have your kids throw it out, just get rid of it.

I know you said you don’t have any friends or family near but now is the time when you really need a support system. You need some sort of support to keep you encouraged.

It will take time to get over this but you will. You’ll come out better, stronger, and wiser.

Best of luck!

Did you enjoy this post? Please subscribe via RSS or email.

You Might Also Like




Write a Comment

Take a moment to comment and tell us what you think. Some basic HTML is allowed for formatting.

Reader Comments

Act Like A Lady Think Like A Man, is a must read e-book for all women. If you’re trying to get over the hurt of a broken heart, trying to get out of a bad relationship or hoping not to get into one, this is the book for you. If you are lonely and haven’t been able to find Mr. Right, wouldn’t know him if you met him or if you’ve found him and are worried about keeping him, folks this is the book! If you are unhappy, suffer from low self esteem, are over weight and don’t feel good about yourself or just feel like your life is going no where, this book can help put your life on the right track. It’s a life changer for both single and married women. Do yourself a favor and preview the e-book at; actlikealadythinklikeaman.com
Type your comment here.

Well, that’s a very nice topic. I agree with all your views. Thanks for making such thoughtful comments. Superb.

Type y is a must read e-book for all women. If you’re trying to get over the hurt of a broken heart, trying to get out of a bad relationship or hoping not to get into one, this is the book for youour comment here.

Type your comment her
As the supplier of the outdoor equipments, the North Face has won a higher and higher popularity in customers all over the world and this phenomenon leads to a great number of North Face stores have established around the world. When you come into North Face shop, you will find that cheap north face jackets is the most popular items of the North Face products, comparing to other items of North Face outdoor products. All jackets of the North Face have the functions of waterproof, breathability and durability, and these are the major factors that lead to the successful of the North Face jackets.

e.

American Medical Association for the movement enough to buy shoes made ​​the following six recommendations:
1, compact design and then shoes, but if you feel comfortable wearing, and do not select them.
2, not only by the size of the foot to buy, depends on whether the shoes fit too fat.
3, the maximum size of your feet to the store to buy (at night or after exercise).
4, the purchase, ordinary wear cotton socks.
5, confirm the shoe for your toes leave enough space to ensure the longest toe to the top of the shoe has a thumb-length space.
6, the decision to buy, we should observe the design of shoes, which will help you choose the one pair that suit your feet and consistent with your exercise in the form of shoes.
Choose shoes please click on our website. We sell new jordan shoes cheap sneakersAdidas soccer shoesAir Jordan shoes

He who is outside his door has the hardest part of his journey behind him.

If you had to ask any sneakerhead what their favorite sneaker from the Nike Air Max lineup was they would more than likely say the Nike Air Max 95.nike air max 2011 Despite the fact that this shoe is now 15 years old, which is a pretty long lifespan for a sneaker, it has still managed to stay remarkably fresh.nike air max 90 This is due in part not only to its excellent design but also because it is famous for having some very nice colorways. Today we will be taking a look at the latest one, this is the new Nike Air Max 95 in Black-White.

When you come in to a North face outlet store, you will be amazed by the diversity of north face jackets.As a professional manufacturer of outdoor equipments,the north face outlet store has been designed and produced series of North Face jackets which include men’s North Face, women’s North Face and kids North Face and other equipments.shop the jackets at North face outlet online,it is your best choice.

Taking into account with regards to the amount, you’ll be able to find the overall jerseys or possibly discount jerseys online. Nonetheless, you need to properly discover the creditworthy web-sites. They might give excellent along with rational value jerseys.

Christian Louboutin are the most important,not only comfortable,but also beautiful,sexy,to catch people’s eyes at a glance.My idea is very simply at that time,that is to make these ladies put on my Christian Louboutin shoes which are more comfortable and beautiful.Not only the star want to wear the , but also the fashion women want to show the style by . And you can also around in style of .

From the creative development to production, each tiny detail is through the deep consideration. Although there are not so many embellishments still have the strong personality.Here is the Classic Black Leather which you can carry on the daily. Not only is the most shining one. But also are hot sale.

There is also a long way and then end the night there and then the black end.

Did not like the sun does not warm the cold would not say that it was

TQYINCHENMSYXXUE
Welcome to Oakley Sunglasses Hut to buy cool and cheap oakleys sunglasses.

I appreciate for sharing the post as provide good information and thanks for the post.

A truly an amazing page.. Nice one you’re having in here. thanks for the share. Impressive indeed.

Many people who are attracted to the concept of financial security are drawn to the vision of a universal performance measure that places values on human and environmental well-being.

I always visit your blog for more updates..And it is a website worth visiting..

Thanks for sharing this information, which is really helpful to me. i am eagerly waiting for your next update.

Italian-style youth Miu Miu Handbags known to the world famous Italian fashion the reason why is because the Italian Miu Miu Bags fashion cut neat and smooth, bright enterprise management Miu Miu Handbags Sale Very gentle decent (refined). However, this safe and gentle style, young people Miu Miu Clutch Bags may not Miu Miu Purse like each.




Privacy Policy