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How Often Should We Talk On the Phone?

Posted by LD Diva on May 11th, 2009

Q: My boyfriend has a stressful job and he is busy. I get it but I since this is long distance I feel like we should talk to each other. He gets days off and he just wants to relax and that’s cool but his relaxing doesn’t include talking to me. We hardly ever talk! Am I crazy for feeling mad? Did you expect to talk to your partner everyday while you were away?

A: Yes, we spoke every day. Through tiredness, sickness, being busy, relaxing, and whatever else life threw at us. Maybe we only had 5 or 10 minutes, but that 5 or 10 minutes each day was very special to us.

Tell him how you feel without being accusatory. Tell him that you’d like to communicate with him more often. His response will indicate whether he’s really into you or not.

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Communication for those who are in a long distance relationship is really important. So it’s really right to at least give even few minutes talking to your love one. This strengthen any relationships.

I think it’s important to realize that males and females are different - however communication definitely is key and if you open up to him and let him know how you feel without nagging perhaps you can come up with a compromise.

Communication is all you have when you are apart. I understand his side, I was working a hard job too. But I would make an effort daily to call my wife. But we talked a little to much. We ran out of things to talk about. So I had to tell her. We need a break. Lets miss each other, and she agreed. It does not mean that you two do not love each other. You just need to do it in moderations. Good luck!




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