Q: Hi Diva. I need some words of encouragement. I am kind of sad today because I’m with my boyfriend but he is going to be leaving in a few days. I’ve been going through this for 8 years and it hasn’t gotten easier. The longer we do this, the harder it gets. I [...]

I am a big fan of writing letters because it helps you express things that you may not normally express verbally. But here’s an idea I’ve always liked that helps you take the letter writing one step further.
You each get notebooks and write in them a few times per week. You can write how you [...]

A poster on LovingYou.com had a few questions about making the most of a long distance relationship. Their comments are in bold, my response follows.
How do you get a grip, especially when he/she is not the kind to give verbal assurances.
– Communication is key. If you need verbal assurances then you need to tell [...]

Long distance relationships are full of highs and lows. Everyone knows that when a visit is coming up you so excited and you can’t wait. Then the visit starts and you are happy but you can’t help but think about how you are eventually going to have to leave. Then it’s time to leave. You [...]