1. Not making time for the person. This should be a “well duh” type of thing but sometimes people forget that ldr’s can be sensitive objects that require much care. I remember one time I was so excited about seeing my sweetie over the weekend. I had been planning and planning and then he calls [...]

I had a bad experience with meeting someone online. Actually it took me 2 years to realize that it was a bad experience and that this person was a pathological liar, sociopath who targeted women online, and was addicted to porn. Do I blame it on the net? No. But it proves you never can [...]

Rebecca “Ruji” Chapnik has written a fabulous article about red flags that indicate that a person is not emotionally available.

The Whatever Vibe
The Wounded Puppy Syndrome
Instant Intimacy Solution
Let’s Meet in Private…Always
The Repeat Offender/Offendee
Sexual Confusion, or the Trial Run

Take great note of number 3, Instant Intimacy Solution, especially if you are in a long distance relationship [...]